Saturday, November 7, 2009

A MUST KIND OF RELATIONSHIP

As I was watching SEX and the City from season 1 to 6 for the nth time, Yes I like to do some re-runs on (That’s my thing let it go!) as i was trying to wait for the next person to sweep me off my feet. I came across a line that really stuck in my head. It’s the last thing Carrie Bradshaw said at the end of Season 6 their last Season.

“Later that day I got to thinking about relationships. There are those that open you up to something new and exotic, those that are old and familiar, those that bring up lots of questions, those that bring you somewhere unexpected, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and significant relationship of all is the one you have with yourself. And if you can find someone to love the you you love, well, that's just fabulous.”

Then it hit me! This is a relationship that i need to focus, "A MUST KIND OF RELATIONSHIP"...

I haven’t had a relationship with myself for quite sometime now, and I admit I miss that.
Going to the movies alone, walking with nothing but the scenery and your IPOD or my music phone.
Drinking Coffee and reading a good book and going back to my passion writing on my little black book.
Walking with friends aimlessly or just have a sit down discussion over a cup of coffee…

After the Pooh Saga that has left me devastated and made me feel as big would say it

“I’m starting to feel like that needy chick again”.

I have made a decision; I will now focus on building a relationship with myself. It does mean that I will close my door to the possibilities, but how can you create a good relationship with someone when you don’t even have one for yourself.

I have a feeling that this new relationship will make me stronger and will make me a better Person, Son, Friend and Yes! Even a partner… Soon!


SO wish me luck ;)


8 comments:

Rygel said...

Good luck :D

Dhon said...

@Rygel -- salamat!

chicomachine said...

true to that. :D

Dhon said...

@Chicomachine -- :D

JAbbeRedONiON said...

Kaya mo yan Dhon!

Dhon said...

@JabberedOnion -- Kaya ko to.. kinaya mo nga noon.. :D ikaw ang inspiration ko..

jules said...

Carrie Bradshaw has taught me a lesson or two! Enjoy your journey. Sometimes an evening at home alone with a list of personal activities you want to accomplish that night is so therapeutic. Good luck.

Dhon said...

@Jules -- I agree.. being all alone at all is not a cause of a great panic.. :) we sometimes need space!

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