...The Heart...

....The Heart....

…..The Heart is a fertile place……

…Anything planted there will grow for sure….

….whether LOVE or Hatred…….

-Dhon

Mga Prinsipyo sa Pag-ibig

Mga Prinsipyo sa Pag-ibig

Who is Bob Ong? Probably one of the most sought after authors in the Philippines

He is also my personal favorite. Aside from Dr. Margarita Holmes, Both of them are on the top of my list.

Who can blame us? If you ever read at least one of his books you would understand.

I believe that this entry has been posted, reposted and then posted again in several blogs. In fact I think I have received this before.

Considering that this has been in circulation for ages and still the impact, humor and the wisdom is timeless.

Thanks to YONA, who forwarded me this through my corporate e-mail.

Ladies and Gentlemen: Words of Wisdom from Bob Ong

Mga Prinsipyo sa Pag-ibig. Magbasa at matuto!

1. "Kung hindi mo mahal ang isang tao, wag ka nang magpakita ng motibo para mahalin ka nya...?

2. "Huwag mong bitawan ang bagay na hindi mo kayang makitang hawak ng iba."

3. "Huwag mong hawakan kung alam mong bibitawan mo lang."

4. "Huwag na huwag ka hahawak kapag alam mong may hawak ka na."

5.. "Parang elevator lang yan eh, bakit mo pagsisiksikan ung sarili mo kung walang pwesto para sayo. Eh meron naman hagdan, ayaw mo lang pansinin."

6. "Kung maghihintay ka nang lalandi sayo, walang mangyayari sa buhay mo.. Dapat lumandi ka din."

7. "Pag may mahal ka at ayaw sayo, hayaan mo. Malay mo sa mga susunod na araw ayaw mo na din sa kanya, naunahan ka lang."

8. "Hiwalayan na kung di ka na masaya. Walang gamot sa tanga kundi pagkukusa."

9. "Pag hindi ka mahal ng mahal mo wag ka magreklamo. Kasi may mga tao rin na di mo mahal pero mahal ka.. Kaya quits lang."

10. "Kung dalawa ang mahal mo, piliin mo yung pangalawa. Kasi hindi ka naman magmamahal ng iba kung mahal mo talaga yung una."--talaga? haha

11. "Hindi porke't madalas mong ka-chat, kausap sa telepono, kasama sa mga lakad o ka-text ng wantusawa eh may gusto sayo at magkakatuluyan kayo. Meron lang talagang mga taong sadyang friendly, sweet, FLIRT, malandi, Pa-FALL O PAASA."

12. "Huwag magmadali sa babae o lalaki. Tatlo, lima , sampung taon, mag-iiba ang pamantayan mo at maiisip mong hindi pala tamang pumili ng kapareha dahil lang maganda o nakakalibog ito. Totoong mas mahalaga ang kalooban ng tao higit sa anuman. Sa paglipas ng panahon, maging ang mga crush ng bayan nagmumukha ding pandesal, maniwala ka."

13. "Minsan kahit ikaw ang nakaschedule, kailangan mo pa rin maghintay, kasi hindi ikaw ang priority."

14. "Mahirap pumapel sa buhay ng tao. Lalo na kung hindi ikaw yung bida sa script na pinili nya."

15. "Alam mo ba kung gaano kalayo ang pagitan ng dalawang tao pag nagtalikuran na sila? Kailangan mong libutin ang buong mundo para lang makaharap ulit ang taong tinalikuran mo."

16. "Mas mabuting mabigo sa paggawa ng isang bagay kesa magtagumpay sa paggawa ng wala"????

17. "Hindi lahat ng kaya mong intindihin ay katotohan, at hindi lahat ng hindi mo kayang intindihin ay kasinungalingan"????

18. "Kung nagmahal ka ng taong di dapat at nasaktan ka, wag mong sisihin ang puso mo. Tumitibok lng yan para mag-supply ng dugo sa katawan mo. Ngayon, kung magaling ka sa anatomy at ang sisisihin mo naman ay ang hypothalamus mo na kumokontrol ng emotions mo, mali ka pa rin! Bakit? Utang na loob! Wag mong isisi sa body organs mo ang mga sama ng loob mo sa buhay! Tandaan mo: magiging masaya ka lang kung matututo kang tanggapin na hindi ang puso, utak, atay o bituka mo ang may kasalanan sa lahat ng nangyari sayo, kundi IKAW mismo!"????

19. "Ang pag-ibig parang imburnal...nakakatakot mahulog...at kapag nahulog ka, it's either by accident or talagang tanga ka.."

Power of Words

Power of Words

… Of all the weapons of destruction that man could invent, the most terrible –and the most powerful –was the word. Daggers and spears left traces of blood; arrows could be seen at a distance. Poisons were detected in the end and avoided… but the word managed to destroy without leaving clues.

~Paulo Coelho

I would just like to share to you guys one of my most favorite phrases from one of Paulo Coelho’s book.

Personally I agree with this saying, especially true in Philippine history. Our national hero Dr. Jose Rizal knew better than to fight fire with fire. He took a different approach, he used words.

The Bad thing about this is sometimes we do not know if we already hurt the person.

As what Paulo Coelho said, there is no physical evidence of hurt (Blood, bruises etc.)

Such power is within all of us; it is up to us if we use it for a good or evil

So as an advice use wisely...

SUDDEN BURST OF ANGER

SUDDEN BURST OF ANGER

Just as I was enjoying my usual website surfing and blog hopping

In the hopes that some of my neurons would wake up and I could finally compose a blog

Suddenly receive an SMS from an ex-lover

He informed me that a lot of people were texting him that I was meeting up people and that he was happy for me.

I was not really angry at the fact that he was happy and he was not bitter. I guess this people did not know that we broke up and they are reporting or telling him that I was out meeting people in the hopes of breaking us up. This is not new to us, I don’t know why these people are so into ruining relationship

Is it because they are just bitter? Or they are just lonely?

I hate the fact that I am in the prying eyes of people who are just waiting for me to screw up!

"I hate it when people are watching my ever move and is just waiting for me to screw up!

That’s just great! You really don’t have to bother and tell me what my mistakes are... Trust me I have enough friends telling me that…."