Lesson on Emotional Attachment

“Getting emotionally attached to someone can sometimes make us forget that we still have a life to live” –A. Perez

It usually starts with him asking me how I am or how my day is…
That how it usually starts, a simple hi and hello and how’s work


With just that….my entire defense, the “Berlin Wall” that I have created to shield myself from him. The “Angat Damn” that I built to control the flowing of my tears will both seize to exist.


Suddenly in no time I found myself back to square one; Broken, Sad and Depressed.


So I decided to post a question on my Facebook in a form of a status…




Among the many responses I got from this post, only one got my attention and made me realize something. It came from the most unlikely person;


A former agent of mine;

“Getting emotionally attached to someone can sometimes make us forget that we still have a life to live” –A. Perez

This literally stopped me in my tracks and then I reached an almost enlightened phase
Yes! I was so busy thinking about him that I almost forgot that I do have a life to live.
We became so engrossed with the other person, or wasted a lot of our time.
Being Depressed, Sleeping it off, getting drunk or just plainly feeling sorry for ourselves that we forgot to live our lives.
We only have one life and we better make the most out of it!


When I was young, my mom always told not to be selfish and consider how other people would feel before you make a decision or an action. Will this time I would have to say

“I’m Sorry Mom, this time I will be selfish! I will put my feelings first for now!”

So I made a decision to change my life, I don’t want to wake up one day and realize that I wasted a great chunk of my life feeling sad for myself. I won’t!

Cattski: MY TURN

Another Cattski Classic! MY TURN is actually a balad… and the one thing I liked about it is about Reconciliation and finding a way some how make it up to the person he loved dearly… My favorite line is the chorus

“It's for me to know that i walked away
Ignoring your tears
Now it's my turn to Love you
It’s written in the stars
I'll make up for the day i broke your heart
Now that I've found you
Love's what i owe you
Ill make up for the day i broke your heart”

This Song is dedicated to someone... who for the lack of a better term.. I owe Love
and hoping that someday.. He will give me that chance to Love Him and mend both our broken hearts..
(Pooh this is for you..)

Below is the Music Video and it took the liberty of transcribing the lyrics.. ENJOY!

My Turn

It doesn’t really matter
who found who
if you found me or if i found you
the questions are answered
Holes are filled
the Truth is revealed
and it doesn’t really matter
What we've both been through
Cause I’m a better me and your a better you
and you're quick to forgive me
As i apologize, I saw it in your eyes

There's a reason why now you are here
After all of those years
It's for me to know that i walked away
Ignoring your tears
Now it's my turn to Love you
it's written in the stars
I'll make up for the day i broke your heart
Now that I've found you
Love's what i owe you
Ill make up for the day i broke your heart

And all that really matters
now that I'm here, Now i can heal
From the pain we had to go through
For just one mistake
And everything we had to take

There's a reason why now you are here
After all of those years
It's for me to know that i walked away
ignoring your tears
Now it's my turn to Love you
it's written in the stars
I'll make up for the day i broke your heart
Now that I've found you
Love's what i owe you
Ill make up for the day..

I’m not gonna take you away
from the world that you know
Not gonna take you away
From the life that you know.. oh whoah..

Now it's my turn to Love you
it's written in the stars
I'll make up for the day i broke your heart
Now that I've found you
Love's what i owe you
Ill make up for the day i broke your heart

Cause its my turn to love you with all my heart

Cattski MISTRESS

Kudos to Cattski for coming up with this song.
I never thought that someone would actually write a song about being a mistress…
I really enjoyed listening to the song; it's both heartwarming at the same time contains powerful words.

Please spare some time to cuddle me
Let's make love under my sheets
I'll let you in my lonely room
And i'll show you what i mean

Please spare some time to hold me
Pillow talk our way to sleep
Give me some of those kisses
Please do that before you leave

Cause ill miss you
When you go back to your life
In that universe where i'm not part of your every single day
One last time
Help me make believe that you are mine
Before i slip away from your restless mind

One last time
teach me how to love you right
So you just might stay
For one more day or one more night

Please spare some time to love me
You can tell me all your dreams
Close your eyes and hoild me tight
And everything will be alright

Cause ill miss you
When you go back to your life
In that universe where i'm not part of your every single day
One last time
Help me make believe that you are mine
Before i slip away from your restless mind

One last time
teach me how to love you right
So you just might stay
For one more day or one more night

Cause ill miss you
when you leave me
when you close the door behind you
and leave me aching for you

When you go back to your life
When you sleep beside your wife
In that universe where i'm not part of your every single day

One last time
Help me make believe that you are mine
Before i slip away from your restless mind

Pink idioms: MAYA

Pink Idioms:
MAYA
MAYA BIRD



> Discreet, closeted
> It is the Cebuano equivalent of the word PA-MEN-TA.

I really don’t have the exact logic why in cebu we call them MAYA instead of Pa-men-ta.
But it came to a point were it is a universal language here in cebu the funny thing Is even the straight guys here knows the meaning of this word. SO I wouldn’t be surprise when this would change soon.

-DHON PAL